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Monday, March 11, 2013

Giraffe share your meals at Giraffe Manor


Friday, March 8, 2013 11:12am PST

Giraffes join guests for breakfast and dinner at iconic Giraffe Manor

By: David Strege



One of the more peculiar hotels in the world features giraffes joining you for breakfast or dinner by poking their heads through open windows. At Giraffe Manor on the outskirts of Nairobi, Kenya, a reference to a long neck doesn't necessarily mean beer.

The one-of-a-kind hotel is actually a sanctuary for the endangered Rothschild giraffe. Roaming the 12 acres of private land within 140 acres of indigenous forest are eight Rothschild giraffes, some of which routinely show up in the mornings and evenings to greet guests and sneak a snack. The captivating photos tell the story.

Giraffe Manor is said to be one of Nairobi's most iconic buildings dating to the 1930s and is reminiscent of the early days of Europeans in East Africa.

Since 1974, Giraffe Manor has been the home of Jock and Betty Leslie-Melville. Why giraffes? Their lifelong goal is the preservation of this treasured Rothschild giraffe.

The goal of guests, meanwhile, is the preservation of their morning toast.

Photos are used by permission from the Giraffe Manor. Enjoy. 













Monday, October 15, 2012

Be Productive like Ginger


Be like Ginger, the model citizen


The government says we have to work as long as we live, be productive and adaptable to the changing needs of the country and the world. Makansutra finds a model citizen, in the spice world.
Be like Ginger, the model citizenGinger
Age doesn’t matter
The older it gets, the more useful it becomes. Old ginger, harvested in its 10th month, is pungent, spicy and invigorating. The Chinese juliennes it and uses it to mask fishiness in seafood, stir-fry meats and vegetables, and add in soups; the Malays and Indians blends it to intensify the flavours of curried dishes, marinate meats and to make chutneys.
Young ginger, harvested early in the fourth month, has less confrontational pungent and spicy notes. It is used to make pickles, which is served between dishes of sushi to cleanse the palate.
A global ingredient
Ginger, grown in China and India since ancient times, and believed to be taken to Europe by Arab traders during the spice trade days, is probably the first “global citizen”, even before there was such a term. In every of its home and adopted country, it “gave back” by turning the local drinks into internationally popular beverages – Southeast Asia’s teh halia, India’s masala chia, China’s brown sugar ginger tea, and European’s ginger ale and ginger beer.
Highly adaptable
Despite its distinctive spicy zing with citrusy hints, ginger is a choice ingredient across a meal. For salads – ginger and sesame dressing, main dishes – Hyderabadi ginger chicken, desserts – ginger milk curd, snacks – ginger bread and biscuits, sweets – candied ginger, and drinks – as mentioned above.
Multihypenate
It is food, as well as medicine, killing two birds with one stone. Jamu (Indonesian Traditional Medicine), Traditional Chinese Medicine and Ayurveda (health system originated in India) believe that it helps dispel wind, relief nausea and cold. It is also believed to possess aphrodisiac qualities and even Karma Sutra praises its ability to bring success in “love”.
Now, who can beat ginger in productivity?

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

What you value most in your life?

WHAT YOU VALUE MOST?

A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.
 

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams.  There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to  think about  the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, 'Mr. Belser  died last night. The funeral is Wednesday.' Memories flashed  through his  mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood  days.
               

 'Jack, did you hear me?'

 'Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago,' Jack said.

 'Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it,' Mom told him.


'I loved that old house he lived in,' Jack said.

 'You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life,'she said                 


 'He's the one who taught me carpentry,' he said. 'I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral,' Jack said.
                 

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away. 

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time.  Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered.  

Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped  suddenly.
               

'What's wrong, Jack?' his Mom asked.
             

 'The box is gone,' he said

'What box?' Mom asked.

 'There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most ,'' Jack said.
                 

It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it. 

'Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him,' Jack said. 'I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom.'

 It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. 'Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days,' the note read.


 Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. 'Mr. Harold Belser' it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside.


 'Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life.' A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.


 Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved:                  'Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser.'


  'The thing he valued most was...my time'


 Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days.


 'Why?' Janet, his assistant asked.


'I need some time to spend with my son,' he said.'Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks f or your time!'
                

 'Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,'
                  

Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.
1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.
2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.           3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.
 4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep. 

5. You mean the world to someone.

6. If not for you, someone may not be living.
7. You are special and unique.
8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you trust God to do what's best, and wait on His time, sooner or later, you will get it or something better.
9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still come from it.
10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on theworld.
11. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you. 

12. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.
 13 . Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know and you'll both be happy
14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.


Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Info Hangat Di Pasaran Untuk Orang Yang Tak Hangat. :)

Adakah anda tau?
1. Cuba tengok zip seluar anda, tertera huruf YKK..YKK bermakna Yoshida Kogyo Kabushibibaisha iaitu sebuah kilang membuat zip terbesar di dunia yang menghasilkan zip yang korang pakai sekarang ni.

2. Bunyi (kuek) yang dihasilkan oleh itik tidak bergema dan beralun. Sehingga kini kita tidak tahu mengapa.

3. Dengan sepotong coklat boleh membunuh anjing? benar!! Coklat mampu merosakkan sistem pernafasan dan jantung anjing. Dengan ounces yang banyak mampu membunuh seekor anjing bersaiz kecil.

4. Kebanyakan lipstick yang kita pakai sekarang ni mengandungi sisik ikan yang telah diproses.

5. Pada tahun 1830, ketchup (sos tomato) digunakan sebagai ubatan dan bukannya perasa tambahan pada makanan.

6. Tiada satu pun jam di Las Vegas gambling casinos. Dengan ketiadaan jam akan melekakan penjudi penjudi dengan taruhan mereka..

7. Kerana ketangkasan Bruce Lee..pengarah terpaksa memperlahankan sedikit filem yang diambil kerana terlampau laju dan pergerakan aksinya tidak dapat ditangkap melalui lensa kamera. Sesuatu yang agak luar biasa dari orang lain.

8. Nama sebenar rama-rama (butterfly) ialah 'flutterby' .

9. Mosquito repellents atau penghalau nyamuk tidak membunuh. Sensor nyamuk hanya dikaburi dan ini menyebabkan nyamuk tidak dapat mengesan di mana mangsa berada.

10. Pakar dan doktor gigi mengesyorkan berus gigi hendaklah diletakkan sekurang kurangnya 6 kaki jauh dari tandas utk menghalang kuman berterbangan ketiki anda menggunakan flush tandas.

11. Jika nombor 111,111,111 didarab 111,111,111 anda akan dpat jawapan 12345678987654321.

12. Warna biru adalah warna kesukaan 80 peratus rakyat Amerika.

13. Tanda (#) di keyboard komputer anda sebenarnya dinamakan 'octothorp'.

14. Adalah mustahil jika anda bersin tanpa memejamkan mata.

15. Seekor lipas boleh hidup selama 10 hari tanpa kepala.

16. Jika dikangkangkan kaki dan baring secara telentang, kita tidak akan tenggelam di dalam pasir jerlus.

17. Nama yang paling banyak umumnya di dunia ini ialah Muhammad.

18. Di Eropah, kebanyakan wanita Eropah tidak memakai seluar dalam sehingga ke tahun 1900 barulah seluar dalam diperkenalkan.

19. Produk pertama menggunakan bar code adalah Wrigley's gum.

20. Mexico City tenggelam sedikit demi sedikit sekitar 10 inci setiap tahun.

21. Mengikut statik dalam kehidupan, ayam adalah haiwan yang paling banyak di dunia mengalahkan manusia, kerana cara pembiakan yang berleluasa dan senang dibiakkan untuk makanan.

22. Otak akan lebih aktif ketika tidur dari ketika anda menonton tv.

23. Terdapat banyak telefon di Washington D.C mengalahkan penduduk penduduknya.

24. Untuk melepaskan dari gigitan buaya, anda perlu mencucuk matanya menggunakan jari sekuat hati. Buaya akan melepas anda serta merta.

25. Jika sebutir kecil kismis dijatuhkan di dalam segelas champagne segar, kismis tersebut akan turun ke dasar gelas dan naik semula dan turun kembali dan seterusnya seakan dilambung-lambung.

26. Leonardo da Vinci juga mencipta gunting dan beliau menghabiskan 10 tahun untuk menyiapkan lukisan agungnya iaitu Monalisa(10 tahun untuk bahagian bibirnya sahaja)

27. 90% dari pembaca yang membaca info ini kebanyakannya tidak tahu tentang fakta yang telah diberikan. Keajaiban fakta fakta sebegini dapat menarik minat pembaca untuk mengetahui dari atas kemusykilan minda kita sendiri.



 28. Dan kebanyakan pembacanya membaca fakta ini semasa waktu office... Pelik bukan!

kkekekekek!! ! Ok dah pegi buat keja kekkekek!!!

Saturday, February 4, 2012

Kisah Cinta Agung yang menyentuh hati

Kisah Cinta Agung Yang Menyentuh Hati





ini dari sebuah kisah benar dari jepun...

ketika sedang mengubahsuai rumahnya, seorang petani cuba meruntuhkan dindingnya. rumah jepun biasanya memiliki ruang kosong antara 2 dinding yang diperbuat dari papan.


bila sebelah dindingnya dibuka, petani tersebut mendapati ada seekor  cicak melekat di dinding tersebut kerana kakinya terlekat pada paku. petani tersebut kasihan dan membuka paku yang memasak kaki cicak itu,seingatnya paku tersebut sudah tertanam selama tiga tahun, sejak  rumah itu mula dibina.

apa sebenarnya terjadi? bagaimana cicak itu dapat bertahan selama tiga tahun menanggung kesakitan dan dalam suasana gelap selama itu.

petani itu berfikir sendiri...  petani itu berehat sebentar, sambil memikirkan bagaimana cicak itu  dapat bertahan selama tiga tahun... mungkinkah tanpa teman dan tanpa  makanan?

tidak lama kemudian dia melihat seekor cicak lain datang ke tempat  itu dengan makanan di mulutnya. betapa petani itu tersentuh, terharu
 melihat rupanya ada cicak lain yang menyedari temannya terperangkap  dan membantu sedayanya selama tiga tahun...


begitulah cinta...cinta yang indah dan agung. cinta menjadikan makhluk picisan  bagi kita, yang sekecil dua ekor cicak sedar tentang keajaibannya. atas nama cinta ia tak pernah menyerah atau mengalah. bayangkan  haiwan sekecil itu sanggup melakukan segala yang terbaik untuk satu  hati yang disayanginya. 




Apakah kita mampu berbuat sebegitu untuk satu hati yang kita sayangi? Fikir-fikirkanlah....

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 saya tersentuh ketika mendengar cerita ini. lalu mula terfikir,tentang hubungan yang terjalin antara keluarga, teman, kekasih,
 saudara lelaki & perempuan... berusahalah semampu kita untuk tetap  dekat dengan orang-orang yang kita kasihi. 

JANGAN PERNAH MENGABAIKAN  ORANG YANG KITA KASIHI!

 kongsikan cerita ini kepada semua orang yang telah menyentuh hidup kita dan membuat kita bertumbuh, mengerti, dan memahami lebih dalam lagi tentang hidup. semoga kita semua sesungguh hargai nilainya CINTA & DICINTAI

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Tunai RM250,000 untuk anda je, ada bran?????


Nak duit RM250,000.00 TUNAI????  Sape tak nak weh. Cuba bagi free, sumer menyerbu nakkan duit tuh.  Bukan senang nak senang la weh.  

Kalau korang rasa korang terrer Sejarah dan cool (berani depan kamera, dan ada hati nak duit tunai, boleh la join Sejarawan Muda.  Tapi tengok IC dulu la ye, kok la korang punye umo 17- 25 tahun, ala2 rumaja, boleh le join. Kalau dah lebih dari itu, lupakan aje la ye.  Cuba la cara lain nak dapat RM250,000 tunai... hehehe.... 

Info;
Radio Televisyen Malaysia (RTM) bersama Suruhanjaya Komunikasi dan Multimedia Malaysia (SKMM) telah melantik Double U Network Sdn. Bhd untuk menerbitkan rancangan tv berkonsepkan kuiz realiti kenegaraan yang bertemakan sejarah Malaysia.  Sejarawan Muda (13 episod x 60 minit) akan diterbitkan untuk siaran di TVi (RTM).

(Sejarawan Muda yang dikendalikan oleh seorang hos menawarkan hadiah wang tunai lebih suku juta ringgit (+RM250,000) untuk para peserta dan penonton di rumah yang menyertai rancangan ini.  Penyertaan hanya dibuka kepada warganegara Malaysia yang menetap di Malaysia. Pemilihan 14 peserta berumur 17-25 tahun akan diadakan di seluruh Malaysia (sila lihat jadual ujibakat peserta) di mana hanya peserta yang berpengetahuan dalam sejarah Malaysia dan memberikan komitmen untuk penyertaan akan dipilih menyertai Sejarawan Muda.


Pada setiap episod, peserta yang mendapat markah paling rendah akan ‘terkeluar’ namun mereka akan membawa pulang hadiah wang tunai iaitu RM98,000 akan dibawa pulang oleh 11 orang peserta. Pada episod akhir (episod 13) hanya 3 peserta sahaja akan bertanding untuk merebut hadiah wang tunai RM100,000 (johan), RM30,000 (kedua) dan RM25,000 (ketiga).


Rakaman akan diadakan di studio tv (Lembah Klang) bersama penonton juga di luar studio, di mana para peserta akan dibawa ke setiap negeri di Malaysia untuk menjejaki/ mencari bahan sejarah yang terdapat di setiap negeri tersebut.


Penonton di rumah juga berpeluang memenangi hadiah wang tunai RM10,000 dengan mengumpul dan menjawab 10 soalan mingguan tentang sejarah Malaysia bersama slogan.)


Lebih lanjut, lawati http://www.sejarawanmuda.com




Monday, September 26, 2011

HOW TO STAY YOUNG?

HOW TO STAY YOUNG


Its really sort of simple:

1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height.
Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay them.

2. Keep only cheerful friends.
The grouches pull you down. (keep this in mind if you are one of those grouches;)


3. Keep learning:
Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening,
whatever. Never let the brain get idle.
"An idle mind is the devil's workshop."
And the devil's name is Alzheimer's!

4. Enjoy the simple things.


5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.
And if you have a friend who makes you laugh, spend lots and lots of time with HIM/HER.


6. The tears happen:
Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. LIVE while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love:  
Whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever.
Your home is your refuge.


8. Cherish your health:
If it is good, preserve it.
If it is unstable, improve it.
If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

9. Don't take guilt trips.
Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county, to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is.


10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.


And if you don't send/share this to at least four people - who cares?
But do share this with someone. Let them be young and happy, like you. :)

Friday, August 12, 2011

Nothing To Lose & Everything To Gain

Why do the degree holders sometimes did not have a good carrer compared to their less educated peer.  I believe that hardwork, positive mindset and hunger for success are some of the answers which bring the not highly educated person to the next level, sometimes even better than their school friends who manage to get degree.

Recently I met with a guy who was a school dropout and started his career from lower level staff. He now have a good career and at the same time running a small business which is profitable and giving him an extra income to lead a comfortable life. 

Now, reading about an ex gang member who rise himself to be a millionnaire is really an inspiring story. He show us that you don't need a degree or master to be successsful. Enjoy the story of Ryan Blair and get inspired, okay.

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Forbes

From Gang Member To CEO

by Dan Schawbel, contributor

I recently caught up with Ryan Blair, who is a serial entrepreneur and author of the new book "Nothing to Lose, Everything to Gain." Ryan established his first company, 24-7 Tech when he was only twenty-one years old. Since then, he has created and actively invested in multiple start-ups and has become a self-made multimillionaire. After he sold his company ViSalus Sciences to Blyth in early 2008, the global recession took the company to the brink of failure resulting in a complete write off of the stock and near bankruptcy. Ryan as CEO went "all in" betting his last million dollars on its potential and turned the company around from the edge of failure to more than $150,000,000 a year in revenue in only 16 months winning the coveted DSN Global Turn Around Award in 2010. In this interview, Ryan talks about how he re-branded himself after being in a gang, the issues with the education system, and more.
How did you shake your criminal record and re-brand yourself?
I remember when I was working my way up in the first company that employed me, I used to have nightmares that one day they'd find out about that I had been in a gang, call me into the office, and fire me. In the beginning I didn't talk much about what I'd been through. But eventually when I got to a point where I had established myself as a professional entrepreneur, I embraced my past, used it as part of my branding, and crossed over.


In this day and age people want authenticity. Now that the world is social, people know all about you. Assuming you decided to join humanity, that is. It turned out that as I started showing my true identity, so did the rest of the world. One of the reasons my company ViSalus is one of the fastest growing companies in the industry today is because we share our good, bad, and ugly. Like sharing a video of me playing a practical joke on one of my employees, for instance. As a result of embracing authenticity, I turned the company around from near bankruptcy to over $15 million a month today. Unlike our competitors, our distributors and customers know exactly who we are, and I'd say that corporate America has a lot of catching up to do.

What's your take on the educational system? Will a college degree help or hurt your chances at starting a successful business?
As a product of Los Angeles's public school system, in a state with the highest dropout rate in the nation (about 20 percent), I can tell you from personal experience that some of our brightest minds are being misidentified because of a one-size-fits-all learning environment. Because I had ADD and dyslexia I never got past the 9th grade.
I recall sitting with a career counselor in continuation high school, being told that I didn't have the intellect or aptitude to become a doctor or a lawyer. They suggested a trade school, construction, something where I'd be working with my hands.
The irony is that today I employ plenty of doctors and lawyers. Would you rather be a doctor or a lawyer, or a guy who writes a check to doctors and lawyers?
If President Obama phoned me today and told me he was appointing me Educational Czar, I'd turn education into a business, a capitalistic, revenue driven system, creating a competitive environment where each school is trying to attract customers, based on quality of customer experience.
As an entrepreneur, having a college degree or getting classroom training won't hurt your chances for starting a successful business, but it's ultimately not necessary. In Malcolm Gladwell's book "Outliers," he makes a point that it takes approximately 10,000 hours to master a skill set at a professional level. That means experience, over traditional education.

What three business lessons did you learn from juvenile detention?
I learned a lot about business and life from my time spent incarcerated. I like to call these pieces of wisdom my Philosophies from the Jail Cell to the Boardroom. One of the biggest lessons I learned was that in Juvenile Hall, new guys always get tested. When I went in the first time, I was just a skinny little white kid and I had to learn fast. People will be bumping into you on the basketball court, or asking you for things, testing to see if you're tough.
And everyone knew that if a guy let someone take their milk during lunchtime, they weren't as tough as they looked. Soon you'd be taking their milk everyday, and so would everyone else. It's the same for business, if you give people the impression that you can be taken, you will be.

Also, adaptation is the key to survival. In jail the guy who rises to power isn't always the strongest or the smartest. As prisoners come and go, he's the one that adapts to the changing environment, while influencing the right people. You can use this in business, staying abreast of market trends, changing your game plan as technology shifts, and adapting our strategy around your company's strongest competitive advantages. Darwin was absolutely right — survival is a matter of how you respond to change.

The last lesson I got from jail is that you have to learn how to read people. You don't know who to trust. It's the same for business because a lot of people come into my office with a front. I have to figure out quickly who is the real deal and who isn't. Based on that fact, I developed an HR system that I use when interviewing potential new hires that I call the Connect Four Technique. Yep, you guessed it. I make my future employees — and I have hundreds of them — play me in Connect Four.

Can everyone be an entrepreneur? Can it be learned or do you have to be born with a special gene?
No. Not everyone can be an entrepreneur. There are two types of people in the world, domesticated and undomesticated. Some people are so domesticated through their social programming and belief system, so employee minded, that they could never be entrepreneurs. And they shouldn't even bother trying. The irony is that this is coming from a guy who teaches millions of people how to become entrepreneurs. I'm literally selling a book about becoming an entrepreneur, telling you that not everyone should read it.
To be an entrepreneur, you have to have fighting instincts. Are instincts genetic? I don't think so, but you 'inherit' them from your upbringing. Now, if you're smart you can reprogram your beliefs. But there are still some people that would rather watch other people be entrepreneurs, like the people in the Forbes "richest celebrity list" than take the time to reprogram themselves, and live their lives like rock stars, too.

Is there a need for business plans these days?
When you've really got the entrepreneurial bug, the last thing you want to do is sit down and write a business plan. It's the equivalent of writing a book about playing the guitar before actually knowing how to play the guitar. You don't know what your new business is going to be like. And just like a guitar, a business will have to be tweaked and tuned multiple times, and you'll need long practice sessions and repetition, before you can get even one successful song out of it.
In my book "Nothing to Lose, Everything to Gain," I actually included a chapter called "I Hate Business Plans" where I talk about this. Most business plans that get sent to me, I close within seconds of opening them up because they are full of fluff and hype. A business plan should be simple, something you could scribble on a scratch pad. No more than three pages of your business objectives, expected results, and the strategy to get there. But the best business plan is one built from a business that is already up and running and that matches the business's actual results.
The point is that you should be so obsessed with your business that you can't sleep at night because that's all you can think about. And that's your ultimate "business plan"

Privacy at Risk! Hackers attack!


What is wrong with some people who doesn't know how to stop asking and digging for information?

There are certain things that we can share with other people but certain things we prefer to keep it personal and private. Why can't some people respect other people privacy?

I am a reserve person who prefer to keep personal things to myself. I hardly share my personal matters with others eventhough i am a happy go lucky lady who love to share opinion and mind.

Few years back I'm living in a black abyss and at a low level of my life.  Day in day out, I'm just a zombie who wish that tomorrow never come & I'll sleep forever. In the end, it's brought me to a turning point which changed my life destiny.  Months after that I still didn't disclose the truth to friends and colleage.  I do not wish to be bombarded with the 5 main questions: What? Why? Where? How? Why now? and any other related question.

I rather not to meet friends, relatives and people who know us, to avoid all the question which I do not wish to answer.

A year later I started to pick up my life again as I have to move on coz life goes on whether I still in the down side or not. I started to writing script again after few years break. I started to join FB, thinking that getting friends may boost up my energy and move on with my life.

Who knows that with many people that I know lately, some people are not happy with my reserve self.  They can't take no for an answer and they are not happy with me giving a simple answer to the questions they pop to me. And they start digging and hacking! They want to know more, for what reason, I really don't know. Can't you let me keep my personal life, personal? Can't you take my answer at face value?

Why can't you respect my privacy? Why I have to tell all my personal life to you? I'm not even a celebrity, why hacking me? Stop it. I don't like it.

Yes. I am ........ (I've told you).  Happy now? Can you stop digging? Whatever info you got, whatever perception people give, I don't give a damn and I will not correct the wrong facts that you got based on any hearsay.  I lead my life and I know what's going on and I don't care your perception and one sided story.

Hackers who can't stop hacking makes me sick.

.

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Rahsia di sebalik tulisan

Tiap manusia ini mempunyai corak tulisan yang berbeza-beza. Walaupun ada yang cuba untuk meniru tulisan orang lain, tapi jika diperhatikan sebaik mungkin pasti ada perbezaannya. Dipercayai, melalui tulisan juga kita boleh belajar mengenali diri seseorang. Wah! Ini sudah bagus kan? Tapi ada syaratnya. Alah, bukannya susah. Tapi tulisan yang hendak di'baca' itu mestilah ditulis dalam keadaan tenang. Seandainya ia ditulis dalam mood yang tak tenteram dan tergesa-gesa, mungkin tulisan itu lebih kotor dan hodoh.. Itu tak boleh dikira kerana bentuk tulisan yang tergambar itu bersifat sementara saja. 
[Tulisan berubah-ubah] 
Ada orang yang bentuk tulisannya tidak pernah berubah-ubah sejak dari dulu lagi. Ha..itu menandakan bahawa dia juga seorang yang sukar untuk berubah. Maknanya dia lebih suka mengekalkan personaliti dirinya yang sedia ada sejak dulu. Sebaliknya jika tulisannya sering berubah-ubah, bermakna dia sentiasa mengalami pembentukan dan pembangunan personaliti dirinya malah dia juga bersikap individual. Dari segi membuat sebarang keputusan, orang yang tulisannya tidak berubah sejak dulu lagi lebih tetap pendirian dan lebih tegas. Manakala mereka yang sering berubah corak tulisan mereka dikatakan lebih mudah untuk berubah fikiran. Bukan bermaksud mereka ini tidak berpendirian langsung tapi keputusan mereka itu masih boleh dipengaruhi oleh orang lain. 
[Kecondongan tulisan] 
Tegak - Sekiranya tulisannya itu tegak saja bermakna dia seorang yang rajin, bertanggungjawab, pandai bergaul dengan orang lain dan sikapnya amat menyenangkan. Dia juga mampu membuat keputusan dengan wajar dan tepat. 
Condong ke kanan - Orangnya bersikap terbuka sama ada dalam pergaulan biasa atau hubungan cinta. Namun dia ini juga sentiasa memerlukan bantuan dan tunjuk ajar daripada orang lain dalam apa juga yang dilakukannya. Dalam erti kata lain, mereka ini kurang yakin dengan tindakan yang diambil dan memerlukan pendapat dan pandangan orang lain untuk menyakinkan diri mereka sendiri. Mereka juga mudah ditimpa perasaan cepat bosan jadi sebab itu cukup pantang kalau mereka kena tunggu lama!
Condong ke kiri - Dia ini seorang yang sensitif walaupun mungkin dari segi luaran nampak dia ini seolah-olah tak kisah sangat. Selain itu, dia juga seorang yang amat berhati-hati dalam apa juga yang dilakukannya kerana dia tidak mahu timbulnya sebarang penyesalan di kemudian hari nanti. Walau bagaimanapun jangan tak tahu, mereka ini seorang yang cukup setia kepada orang yang dicintainya! Cayalah!
[Saiz tulisan] 
Besar - Ini menandakan dia seorang yang kurang matang namun dia inginkan orang lain mengikut caranya. Sebab itu mungkin akan timbulnya perselisihan dengan orang sekeliling. Bahkan dia juga amat gembira jika ada orang yang memandang tinggi terhadap keupayaan dirinya. Kecil - Bentuk tulisan kecil ini menandakan dia seorang yang berfikiran jauh dan bersikap akademik. Selain itu dia juga sebenarnya seorang yang sensitif dan mudah tersentuh jiwanya.
Semakin lama semakin besar - Jika dilihat, mulanya saiz tulisannya taklah besar sangat tapi semakin banyak dia menulis, saiznya bertambah besar. Ini menandakan dia seorang yang berfikiran terbuka tetapi agak kurang berhati hati dalam tindakannya. 
Semakin kecil
- Ha.. ini pula membawa maksud bahawa dia seorang yang cukup berhati hati tetapi suka menyimpan rahsia. Tapi awas, dia mungkin sanggup berbohong untuk menutup kesalahan dirinya. Kata orang, bohong sunat!
[Bentuk tulisan] Lebar - Ia menandakan bahawa dia seorang yang aktif dan suka melibatkan diri dalam pelbagai persatuan dan pertubuhan. Selain itu dia juga gemar mengembara sambil bercuti. Tapi nampaknya dia ini kurang bijak dalam menjaga hati teman-teman. Tulisan kurus - Ternyata dia akan melakukan perkara-perkara yang hanya digemarinya saja. Tulisan bersegi empat - Otak matematik rupanya dia ni.
Tulisan bulat - Ini menandakan dia seorang yang suka bergaul dan penyayang. Bersambung - Pemikirannya berdasarkan logik.
Bercerai cerai - Segala tindakannya lebih cenderung mengikut gerak hatinya saja! [Jarak tulisan] Tulisan jauh - Sekiranya dia mempunyai jarak antara tulisan agak jauh, bermakna dia sukar didekati dan tak suka orang lain terlalu rapat dengan dirinya. Bukan apa, jika dia mungkin akan bersikap mengongkong atau bergantung pada orang-orang yang rapat dengan dirinya itu. Tulisan rapat - Memang mudah untuk berdampingan dengan dia ini kerana dia juga berfikiran terbuka. [Ruangan di tepi] Perhatikan ruang yang ditinggalkan pada muka surat itu. Sekiranya :Ruang kiri kanannya sama, jarak ruang di kiri dan kanan muka surat itu adalah sama besarnya -Itu bermakna dia seorang yang berfikiran optimistik. Ruang muka surat sebelah kiri kecil - Itu menandakan dia seorang yang amat sensitif sebenarnya! Ruang muka surat kanan kecil - Sememangnya dia seorang yang rajin namun sukar membuat pertimbangan yang sewajarnya. 
Penuh satu muka surat - Ternyata dia seorang yang amat tegas dan mempunyai banyak ide bernas yang boleh dikongsi bersamanya.

Friday, July 15, 2011

Banyak untung jika anda kenali sifat-sifat lelaki

Banyak untung kalau kenal lelaki oleh DR. HM TUAH


Jika suami anda menyendiri dan menjauhkan diri, ketahuilah dia dalam keadaan tertekan. Boleh jadi ada tekanan di tempat kerjanya, boleh jadi oleh kereta yang dimilikinya, atau boleh jadi beberapa kerenah anda yang menjadi menyebabnya.

Apabila lelaki menyendiri, kita boleh simpulkan dia sedang tertekan, berbeza dengan anda, dalam keadaan tertekanlah segala rahsia akan diceritakan. Anda melakukan begitu untuk meraih simpati.

Meskipun begitu, usahlah risau, ia sekejap saja. Emosi pada orang lelaki umpama getah, sekejap saja telah kembali ke bentuk asal walaupun tadinya terhenyak pipih. Berbeza dengan anda bukan? Tatkala anda tertekan, emosi anda umpama ombak. Ombak memang tidak pernah reda, kalau reda pun mengambil masa yang lama.

Apabila lelaki suka menyendiri dan berdiam diri, biasanya disebabkan imejnya yang tergugat. Biarkan sahaja untuk tempoh-tempoh tertentu. Usah 'gatal-gatal' sangat memujuk. Kadang-kadang lelaki hanya perlukan 'tempoh bertenang' sebelum mengambil langkah seterusnya. Anda kelam-kabut, maka itu anda mudah marah, cemburu dan merajuk apabila berdepan dalam situasi begini. Ohhh, itu silap.

Lelaki selalunya dapat menyesuaikan diri apabila menghadapi kesukaran, berbeza wanita biasanya cukup risau dalam keadaan demikian. Dan usah risau sangat kalau lelaki anda
cuba berjauhan dari anda dalam keadaan-keadaan demikian sebab semula jadinya lelaki terasa selesa berjauhan dengan keluarga. Ini tentu berbeza sekali dengan anda, yang suka dan berasa tenang bersama keluarga?

Mengapa lelaki begitu? Itulah bukti kekuasaan ALLAH. DIA menjadikan perbezaan yang ketara antara lelaki dengan wanita, agar apabila disatukan, terjalinlah satu bentuk kekuatan lantaran saling sempurna menyempurnakan - lengkap melengkapi. Semua kekurangan isteri akan dipenuhi oleh suami dan semua kekurangan suami akan dipenuhi pula oleh isteri.

Lihat perbezaan sebagai sebab untuk sempurna menyempurnakan bukan jurang kedegilan untuk tidak mahu memahami.

Lelaki itu cara fikirnya makro, iaitu dia melihat secara keseluruhan, sedangkan anda para wanita mempunyai penilaian bersifat mikro iaitu melihat sesuatu secara terperinci. Maka itu, usah hairan, terkadang suami selamba dengan masalah yang anda rasakan cukup berat. Anda telah kering air mata sedangkan dia masih belum menitis walau sebutir pun air mata.

Jika berlaku pertengkaran selalunya dia akan melawan habis-habisan dan anda pula mengalah dan pura-pura setuju demi perhubungan. Usah terasa teruk sangat dengan keadaan ini, lelaki memang begitu, sentiasa mahu menang dan mahu sentiasa dilihat menang walaupun hatinya mengakui kesilapannya dan mahu berubah mengikut apa yang anda perkatakan.

Walaupun anda tahu anda benar dan anda tidak pernah berbuat salah, akhirilah semua pertengkaran dan perselisihan dengan anda yang meminta maaf. Anda mahukan dia yang meminta maaf? Usah harap. Lelaki memang berat untuk meminta maaf terutama daripada pasangannya. Ikut kajian, wanita lebih mudah meminta maaf dalam keadaan apa jua dan atas hal apa jua, maka gunakan kelebihan ini untuk lebih mudah meminta maaf walaupun tidak bersalah.

Satu lagi yang anda patut tahu tentang lelaki ialah mereka memang suka memberi arahan bagaikan ketua yang mempunyai kuasa. Usah dilawan, tapi layanlah hati sendiri dengan berleter hingga anda sendiri berasa puas. Tapi awas, jangan sampai berleter di hadapannya, itu boleh memburukkan keadaan.

Kata orang, wanita sinonim dengan leteran. Kalau tak pandai berleter bukan wanita namanya. Ya, teruskan saja berleter, hamburkan semua yang menekan kepala. Cuma mohon berleter di dalam bilik yang tertutup, sebab kucing pun pening dengan leteran anda.

Lelaki memang rimas dengan leteran dan cepat naik darah apabila asyik dileteri. Lihatlah betapa berbezanya anda dengan suami. Tidakkah anda setuju jika saya katakan, adalah amat beruntung jika anda tahu lebih banyak tentang lelaki?


Kecantikan Lelaki

Kecantikan seorang lelaki bukan kepada rupa fizikal tetapi pada murni rohani. Lelaki yang cantik,adalah:-

1) Lelaki yang mampu mengalirkan airmata untuk ingatan
2) Lelaki yang sedia menerima segala teguran
3) Lelaki yang memberi madu, setelah menerima racun
4) Lelaki yang tenang dan lapang dada
5) Lelaki yang baik sangka
6) Lelaki yang tak pernah putus asa

Kecantikan lelaki berdiri di atas kemuliaan hati. Seluruh kecantikan yang ada pada Nabi Muhammad adalah kecantikan yang sempurna seorang lelaki.


Kegagahan Wanita

Kegagahan seorang wanita bukan kepada pejal otot badan, tetapi pada Kekuatan perasaan.

Perempuan yang gagah,adalah:-

1) Perempuan yang tahan menerima sebuah kehilangan
2) Perempuan yang tidak takut pada kemiskinan
3) Perempuan yang tabah menanggung kerinduan setelah ditinggalkan
4) Perempuan yang tidak meminta-minta agar dipenuhi segala keinginan.


Kegagahan perempuan berdiri di atas teguh iman. Seluruh kegagahan yang ada pada Khadijah adalah kegagahan sempurna bagi seorang perempuan.

Saturday, July 9, 2011

Lubang di dinding hati anda

PAKU DIDINDING HATIMU...

Ada seorang pemuda yang sangat pemarah. Dia tidak dapat mengawal kemarahannya walaupun ianya hanya satu masalah kecil sahaja.

Pada suatu hari, bapanya telah menghadiahkannya dengan seguni paku.

"Untuk apakah paku-paku ini ayah?" tanya pemuda tersebut.

"Setiap kali kamu marah, kamu pakulah tembok batu di hadapan rumah kita ini, bagi melepaskan kemarahan mu" jawab ayahnya.
 
Pada hari yang Pertama sahaja, pemuda itu telah memaku sebanyak 37 batang paku pada tembok batu tersebut. Selepas beberapa minggu, setelah dia dapat mengurangkan kemarahannya, jumlah paku yang digunakan juga berkurangan.

Dia mendapati, adalah lebih mudah mengawal kemarahannya dari memukul paku menembusi tembok batu tersebut.
 
Akhirnya tibalah pada suatu hari, dimana pemuda tersebut tidak marah, walau sekali pun. Dia pun memberitahu ayahnya mengenai perkara tersebut dengan gembira. Bapanya mengucapkan tahniah dan menyuruh dia mencabut kembali paku itu satu persatu, pada setiap hari yang ia lalui tanpa kemarahan.

Hari berganti hari, dan akhirnya dia berjaya mencabut kesemua paku-paku tersebut. Pemuda tersebut lantas memberitahu perkara tersebut kepada bapanya dengan bangganya.
 
Bapanya lantas memimpin tangannya ke tembok tersebut dan berkata "Kau telah melakukannya dengan baik, anakku, tetapi lihatlah kesan lubang-lubang di tembok batu tersebut, tembok itu tidak akan kelihatan sama lagi seperti sebelumnya. Bila kau menyatakan sesuatu atau melakukan sesuatu ketika marah, ianya akan meninggalkan kesan parut dan luka, sama seperti ini. Kau boleh menikam seseorang dengan pisau dan membunuhnya. Tetapi ingatlah, tak kesah berapa kali kau memohon maaf dan menyesal atas perbuatam mu, namun lukanya masih tetap ada. Luka di hati adalah lebih pedih dari luka fizikal.
 
Sahabat adalah permata yang sukar dicari. Mereka membuatkan kamu ketawa dan menggalakan mu
ke arah kejayaan. Sahabat juga adalah seorang pendengar, berkongsi suka dan duka dan sentiasa membuka hatinya kepada kita.
 
 


"Maafkan diri ini sekiranya pernah meninggalkan kesan berlubang di dinding hati anda"

Can a family man with salary RM3,000 survive in Malaysia?

Bila bercakap pasal gaji, memang tak pernah nak cukup. Ada aje yang nak dibayar bila cukup bulan.  Kena la buat budget supaya tak tergelincir.  Cuba tengok camne seorang lelaki berkeluarga yang dok kat Malaysia (terutama KL la kan, Kuala Lumpur ya, bukan Kuala Lipis atau Kampung Lepat) nak tanggung keluarga dengan gaji RM3,000.
Can a family man with Salary RM3,000 survive in Malaysia?
 

Let's do some simple calculations here.

 

In Malaysia, the average family income is RM3,000 /month
(where father works, mother doesn't).

 

I understand there are many families whose monthly income does not reach RM3,000, but, to make things simple, let's take RM3,000 as the figure. Ok lah, right?

 

Okay, let's start rolling with a family which has Papa, Mama, 1 daughter and 1 son. Ngam-ngam ....

 

Calculation starts...

 

Electricity and water bill:    
RM100
(No air-con, No home theatre, No water heater ... ok?)

 

Phone bill :          
RM100
 

Meals for a happy family:    
RM775
(3 meals on RM25/day, RM25 for 4 persons...?)

 

Papa makan / teh-tarik during working hrs:  
RM155
(RM5/day, RM5 ... can eat what?)

 

Car repayment:
RM400
(A proton saga aeroback, 7 yrs repayment)

 

Petrol (living in city, traffic-jam) :
RM300
(go to work, bring son to school, only can afford one car running)

Insurance:           RM650
(kids, wife and myself)

 

House repayment:      
RM750
(low cost housing repayment for 30 yrs, retired still have to work to pay!)

 

Tuition:      
RM80
(got that cheap meh? i don't think so)

 

Older children pocket money @ school:      
RM20
(RM1/day, eat bread?)

 

School fees:                          
RM30
(enough ah?)

 

School book s and etc:                  
RM100
(always got extra to pay in school)

 

Younger children milk powder:                                
RM50
(cannot have the DHA, BHA, PHA one, expensive)

 

Miscellaneous:                                                                      
RM100
(shampoo, rice, sauce etc)

 

Oh wait!!! I have to stop here, so...
No Astro,
no movie @ cinema,
no DVD,
no CD,
no online,
cannot KFC,
cannot McDonald,
cannot go Park walk during weekend (petrol expensive),
no chit chat on phone with grandparents, and etc...

 

Let's use a calculator to total up... WALAO EH! Shit!
RM3,610 already...
 

EPF belum potong, income tax lagi........ oledi RM3,610 ....

 

How to survive lah tuan-tuan dan puan-puan sekalian ???


Gitu la cerita sorang lelaki yang dok kat KL ni, memikirkan camne nak tambah pendapatan. Mana nak carik duit lebih weh????? Join la MLM ke, jual burger malam-malam ke, jual nasik lemak ke.... hehehe

Things to ponder.....................