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Hidup di kalangan masyarakat majmuk kebanyakan kita akan berjiran dengan keluarga yang bukan Islam.

Bagi kaum Tionghua dan Hindu mereka selalu mempunyai tempat penyembahan masing-masing, kaum Cina mungkin di luar rumah manakala Hindu di dalam rumah.

Bila kaum Cina yang beragama Taoisme atau Buddha sering melakukan upacara penyembahan mereka di luar, anak-anak kita yang masih kecil akan lihat, dan mungkin pernah bertanya kepada kita....
 "Uncle sebelah buat apa tu Abah?"

Dan secara amnya, kita akan menjawab... "dia org tgh sembahyang atau tengah sembah Tuhan dia" jawaban itu tuan-tuan, nauzubillah sebenarnya syirik.... Kerana ia bercanggah dengan prinsip dua kalimah syahadah kita.. "tiada Tuhan yang disembah melainkan ALLAH"
tetapi apabila kita memberik an jawapan ... "Dia tengah sembah Tuhan dia" kita menggambarkan pada anak kita ba hawa ada Tuhan yang lain dari ALLAH, kita memberi gambaran kepada anak kita, ba hawa , kaum Cina punya satu Tuhan, India satu Tuhan, Kristian satu Tuhan...dan cara mereka menyembah Tuhan mereka lain dari kita.

Sedangkan kita mengucap kalimah kita "tiada Tuhan yang disembah melainkan ALLAH"
Jadi mana datangnya konsep atau pengertian "dia sedang sembah Tuhan dia"?

Sekiranya jawapan ini diteruskan.. ...maka anak kita akan terus keliru dengan konsep dan prinsip syahadah kita " Tiada tuhan yang disembah melainkan ALLAH"

Jawaban yang sebenarnya, 

  " Anak, pertamanya perlu faham, Tuhan kita dengan Tuhan Uncle sebelah sama, kerana ada hanya satu tuhan sahaja iaitu ALLAH, tapi cara dia menyembah Tuhan itu salah" ..

Jangan ambil mudah jawaban yang diberikan kepada anak, kerana jawaban yang salah akan hanya merosakkan atau setidak-tidaknya akan kelirukan mereka.

Sekadar mengamalkan "sampai dan menyampaikan" .

Sekiranya apa yang disampaikan di sini atas kelemahan diri sendiri dan yang baik datang dari ALLAH.

Apa yang disampaikan di sini ialah pemahaman sendiri dari kuliah maghrib, sekiranya ada pihak yang mempunyai idea dan jawaban yang lebih baik..... SILA KONGSI BERSAMA. 

What you value most in your life?

WHAT YOU VALUE MOST?

A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.
 
It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams.  There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to  think about  the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, 'Mr. Belser  died last night. The funeral is Wednesday.' Memories flashed  through his  mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood  days.
               
 'Jack, did you hear me?'

 'Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago,' Jack said.

 'Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it,' Mom told him.

'I loved that old house he lived in,' Jack said.

 'You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life,'she said                 

 'He's the one who taught me carpentry,' he said. 'I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral,' Jack said.
                 
As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away. 

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time.  Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered.  

Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped  suddenly.
               
'What's wrong, Jack?' his Mom asked.
             
 'The box is gone,' he said

'What box?' Mom asked.

 'There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most ,'' Jack said.
                 
It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it. 

'Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him,' Jack said. 'I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom.'

 It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. 'Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days,' the note read.

 Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. 'Mr. Harold Belser' it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside.

 'Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life.' A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.

 Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved:                  'Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser.'

  'The thing he valued most was...my time'

 Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days.

 'Why?' Janet, his assistant asked.

'I need some time to spend with my son,' he said.'Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks f or your time!'
                
 'Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,'
                  
Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.
1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.
2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.           3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.
 4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep. 
5. You mean the world to someone.

6. If not for you, someone may not be living.
7. You are special and unique.
8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you trust God to do what's best, and wait on His time, sooner or later, you will get it or something better.
9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still come from it.
10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on theworld.
11. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you. 
12. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.
 13 . Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know and you'll both be happy
14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.

MERENDAH HATI

MERENDAH HATI JALAN MENUJU KEBAHAGIAAN

Memandang Setiap Individu Unik, Istimewa dan Penting
Peribadi yang rendah hati biasanya memandang bahawa orang lain memiliki keunikan dan keistimewaan, sehingga dia sentiasa membuat  orang lain merasa penting. Kerana sesungguhnya setiap peribadi adalah istimewa. Setiap orang adalah unik dan berhak untuk dihargai. Manusia adalah peribadi yang harus diperlakukan khusus. Manusia adalah makhluk yang sangat sensitif. Jika kita meragukan hal ini, lihat diri kita sendiri dan perhatikan betapa mudahnya kita merasa disakiti atau tersinggung.
Jika apa yang kita pikirkan mengenai orang lain berubah, maka sikap dan tindakan mereka terhadap kita juga akan berubah. Kerana manusia sangat sensitif satu sama lain dalam banyak hal, kita biasanya sangat peka terhadap apa yang difikirkan oleh satu sama lainnya. Jika hubungan kita dengan isteri/suami, kekasih, teman, rakan kerja atau orang tua kita tidak sebagaimana kita harapkan, cubalah lihat lebih jauh ke dalam fikiran kita, apa yang sesungguhnya kita fikirkan saat ini tentang orang tersebut. Kita pasti memiliki hal-hal atau gambaran yang sangat negatif atau positif tentang seseorang.

Mendengar dan Menerima Kritik

Salah satu ciri kerendahan hati adalah dapat mendengar pendapat, saranan dan menerima kritik dari orang lain. Sering dikatakan bahawa Tuhan memberi kita dua telinga dan satu mulut, yang dimaksudkan agar kita lebih banyak mendengar daripada bercakap. Kadang-kadang hanya dengan mendengarkan saja kita dapat menguatkan orang lain yang sedang dilanda kesedihan atau kesulitan. Dengan hanya mendengar, kita dapat memecahkan sebagian besar masalah yang kita hadapi. Mendengar juga bererti membuka diri dan menerima, suatu sifat yang menggambarkan kerelaan untuk menerima kelebihan dan kekurangan orang lain mahupun diri kita sendiri.
Demikian halnya dengan kritik, harus sentiasa dipandang sebagai saranan untuk kita belajar dan berusaha. Kritik harus kita pandang sebagai sumber kita untuk mengembangkan diri, bukan untuk menunjukkan kita salah atau benar. Apapun bentuk dan cara penyampaian kritik harus sentiasa kita pandang positif dalam proses pembelajaran yang berlangsung terus menerus dalam hidup kita. Banyak sekali dari kita yang memandang kritik sebagai hal yang peribadi yang menunjukkan kelemahan dan kegagalan kita. Padahal sebaliknya kritik menunjukkan kemenangan dan kedewasaan kita dalam menghadapi setiap tentangan dan kesulitan.

Berani Mengakui Kesalahan dan Meminta Maaf

Salah satu ciri kerendahan hati adalah sentiasa berani mengakui kesalahan dan meminta maaf jika melakukan kesalahan atau menyinggung perasaan orang lain. Manusia rendah hati adalah manusia yang sangat peduli dengan perasaan orang lain. Bezakan dengan mereka yang sentiasa peduli dengan apa yang dikatakan orang lain. Orang seperti ini bukan rendah hati, tetapi rendah diri atau tidak memiliki rasa percaya diri, sehingga dia selalu khuatir dengan apa yang akan difikirkan atau dikatakan orang lain tentang dirinya.

Rela Memaafkan

Rela memaafkan merupakan ciri seseorang yang rendah hati. Bahkan dalam setiap agama dikatakan bahawa kita harus memaafkan kesalahan sesama kita, kerana Tuhan juga mengampuni dosa-dosa kita. Sifat ini tidak selalu kita temui dalam kehidupan seharian kita. Masih banyak dari kita yang tidak dapat memaafkan orang lain dan sentiasa hidup dalam dendam dan sakit hati. Rela memaafkan lebih ditujukan kepada kepentingan diri kita sendiri, untuk menghindarkan kita dari sakit penyakit dan tekanan dalam kehidupan kita.

Lemah Lembut dan Penuh Pengendalian Diri

Ciri yang jelas dari orang yang rendah hati adalah sikapnya yang lemah lembut (gentle) dan penuh pengendalian diri (self control). Dia tidak pernah membiarkan emosinya tidak terkendali dan lepas kontrol. Dia tidak menunjukkan kemarahan dengan sikap kasar, kata-kata yang tidak baik, atau melakukan tindakan fisik. Kemarahan dia tunjukkan dalam rangka mendidik orang lain. Kemarahan atau kekecewaan yang dirasakan sentiasa dapat dia kendalikan sepenuhnya, dalam erti bukan dilupakan, diacuhkan atau ditahan (supressed), tetapi dilepaskan dengan pasrah (released). 

Engineer & Frog : The bengong story

Engineer & Frog : The bengong story.

 

An engineer was crossing a road one day when a frog called out to him and said, "If you kiss me, I'll turn into a beautiful princess." 

 

He bent over, picked up the frog and put it in his pocket. 

The frog spoke up again and said, "If you kiss me and turn me back into a beautiful princess, I will stay with you for one week." 

The engineer took the frog out of his pocket, smiled at it and returned it to the pocket. 

The frog then cried out, "If you kiss me and turn me back I'll stay with you for one week and do anything you want!" 

Again the engineer took the frog out, smiled at it and put it back into his pocket. 

Finally, the frog asked, "What is the matter? I've told you I'm a beautiful princess, that I'll stay with you for a week and do anything you want!" 

The engineer said, "Look I'm an engineer. I don't have time for a girlfriend, but a talking frog, now that's cool!" 

 

 

FUNNY LABU, AH BENG & SARDAR (part 1)

LABU, AH BENG & SARDAR

1
Labu: I haven’t slept all nite in the train.
Friend: Why?
Labu: Got upper bed.
Friend: Why did'nt u Xchanged?
Labu: oye, there was nobody 2 Xchange in the lower bed..
 
2
Ah Beng tells a girl "Come 2 my house at night, nobody  will b there...
Girl goes at night & really nobody was there
 
3
Labu went to a BANK to open a Current A/c. After seeing
the Form he had gone to KUALA LUMPUR for filling up. You know why?
FORM said "FILL UP IN CAPITAL ".
 
4
Sardar invested 2 Million in a business and suffered huge loss.
Do u know what the business was? . . . . .
He opened a Saloon in Punjab!.
 
5
A Teacher lecturing on population - In India after every 10
sec a women gives birth to a kid. Sardar stands up- we
must find & stop her!.
 
6
Ah Beng - why are all these people running?
Man- This is a race, the winner will get the cup.
Ah Beng - If only the winner will get the cup, why are
others running?
 
7
Sardar had twins; he named them Tin Martin. again had twins & named Peter & Repeater. again twins & named Max & Climax. Again d same. disgusted Sardar named them  TIRED & RETIRED!
 
8
19 Ah Beng went for a film.On asking them why they came in big group of 19? They replied that the film was only for 18 and above!

 
9
A Sardharji photographer focusing a dead body's face in a funeral function, suddenly all relatives beat him why?
He said "SMILE PLEASE"
 
10
Teacher: "I killed a person" convert this sentence into future tense.
Labu: The future tense is "u will go to jail".
 
11
Labu gets ready ,wears tie, coat, goes out, climbs tree, sits on the branch regularly. A man asks why he does this.
Labu: "I've been promoted as branch manager."
 
12
Ah Beng standing below a tube light with a open mouth......... . WHY?
because his doctor advised him "Todays dinner should be light"

Hakikat Pernikahan

HAKIKAT PERKAHWINAN

Dengan Nama Allah Yang Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang
Ada banyak alasan manusia yang membuat dasar dari
hakikat pernikahan, hakikat yang seperti apakah yang
paling membahagiakan? cuba kita lihat dan manakah
pilihan kita???

- Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana SEX, maka
pasangan rajin bertengkar jika servis di kamar tidur
tidak memuaskan.

- Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana HARTA, maka pasangan bakal bubar jika bangkrup.

- Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana KECANTIKAN, pasangan bakal lari jika rambut mula beruban dan muka keripot atau badan jadi gendut.

- Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana ZURIAT, maka pasangan akan cari alasan untuk pergi jika pasangan tidak dapat memberi anak.

- Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana KEPERIBADIAN, pasangan akan lari jika orang berubah tingkah lakunya.

- Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana CINTA, hati
manusia itu tidak tetap dan mudah terpikat pada
hal-hal yang lebih baik, lagipula manusia yang
dicintai pasti MATI / PERGI.

- Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana IBADAH kepada ALLAH, sesungguhnya ALLAH itu KEKAL dan MAHA PEMBERI HIDUP kepada makhlukNYA. Dan ALLAH mencintai hambaNYA melebihi seorang ibu mencintai bayinya. Maka tak ada alasan apapun didunia yang dapat meretakkan rumah tangga kecuali jika pasangan mendurhakai ALLAH.


* Kalau rajin..Tolong sebarkan petunjuk ini kepada
saudara Muslim Muslimat yang lain. Ilmu yang
bermanfaat ialah salah satu amal yang berkekalan bagi
orang yang mengajarnya meskipun dia sudah mati.
InsyaAllah..

Honesty

HONESTY

A distinguished young woman on a flight from Switzerland asked the priest beside her, "Father, may I ask a favor?" 

"Of course. What may I do for you?"

"Well, I bought an expensive! Electronic hair dryer that is well over the Customs limits and I'm afraid they'll confiscate it. Is there any way you could carry it through Customs for me? Under your robes perhaps?"
"I would love to help you, dear, but I must warn you:  I will not lie."
"With your honest face, Father, no one will question you."
  When they got to Customs, she let the priest go ahead of her. The official asked, "Father, do you have anything to declare?"
"From the top of my head down to my waist, I have nothing to declare."
The official thought this answer strange, so asked, "And what do you have to declare from your waist to the floor?"

"I have a marvelous little instrument designed to be used on a woman, but which is, to date, unused."

Roaring with laughter, the official said, "Go ahead, Father - - Next! "